FACTS AND SUPPORT
What is Responsive Feeding?
A responsive feeding approach is based on the central ideas of a responsive approach to parenting. Responsive behaviors are characterized by prompt responses to a child’s communication, emotionally supportive interactions, contingent responses, and the provision of developmentally appropriate experiences.
- Respond promptly to a child’s communication of hunger or satiety
- Actively acknowledge a child’s experience during a meal and can share a child’s joy, or acknowledge the child’s distress or discomfort
- Always consider a child’s developmental level and offer experiences and foods that are appropriate and enjoyable for that child
Responsive feeding practices help children to build independence, confidence, and mealtime skills.
When children are fed responsively, they learn to look to their caregivers for emotional support and safety during feedings. Shared mealtime experiences allow parents and children to have space to enjoy eating together.
Over the years, different professionals have used varying terms to refer to responsive feeding practices. Some of these terms include: child-led feeding, relationship-based feeding, cue-based feeding, and a Get Permission Approach to feeding.
What is pediatric feeding disorder?
Impaired oral intake that is not age-appropriate, and is associated with medical, nutritional, feeding skill, and/or psychosocial dysfunction.
– Goday et al., 2019
Red Flags That May Indicate Your Child Needs an Evaluation
Are you or your child experiencing any of the following? If so, consider reaching out for help.
- Feeling stress and worry about whether your child is eating appropriately or growing well
- Crying or fussing at mealtimes
- Frequently vomiting or spitting up
- Arching away from the bottle or breast
- Coughing, gagging, or increased congestion with eating or drinking
- Taking longer than 20-30 minutes to eat
- Difficulty breathing during eating
- Falling asleep during eating
- Frequently spitting out of food or liquid
- Pocketing food or overstuffing mouth with food
- Eating a limited diet
- Arguing with a partner or child about what your child eats
We believe that if a parent is concerned, that is enough of a reason to reach out for help. Search our provider directory here to find the right person to help your family.
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If you aren’t sure whether your child might need an evaluation of his/her feeding skills, take the Feeding Matters Infant and Child Feeding Questionnaire here.
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